If you want to know where the problem is, there is a simple way to figure it out.
1. Pull the lower unit. Put it in a tub of water and use a drill to spin the prop shaft while the drill is in FORWARD, that means clockwise, looking down. When you spin it, water should shoot out of the water pump.
Sometimes people spin the vanes of the impeller backwards during installation, and the pump never works right, and/or wears out quickly. Or some other water pump issue, like missing a gasket or a hole in the pump housing.
2. While the lower unit is off, find the water pickup tube in the midsection, and push a cut piece of water hose over the tube and clamp it a well as you can. Turn the hose on slowly. The motor should start peeing and circulating water as normal.
If it doesn't start peeing, remove the end of the pee hose at the motor.
If still no water, remove the thermostat housing.
If NO water comes out of the pee hole or the thermostat opening, the issue is somewhere above the lower unit. I've seen a number of times where the water tube was broken or had a big hole in it. Most of the time it's a piece of 1/2" copper pipe, and you can replace it, but sometimes it's very specific, and you have to buy the exact part.
This should help you figure out the problem. Please report back what happens.