Hang in there.
How far are you from a ramp? Best to test by backing into the water. If the stream is okay, take her for a spin. Put her through her paces. You may be overthinking.
I have found that some Mercury water pumps are sensitive to running without water. If you aren't happy with the water flow, and the motor is new to you, CHANGE THE IMPELLER. They are easy to do on Mercs and it might save you a lot of time and money in the end.
Worst case, you will know how the engine pees with a good impeller, and you will have a spare, if the old one is perfect, and all will be good.
Make sure to lightly grease the impeller with marine grease before installing. Don't gloop the cup full of grease, just wipe a film over all the surfaces to protect against a dry start the first few times.
I've gotten into the habit of changing impellers on any motor I get. For $35 or so, it's worth the peace of mind