I can only say it is below what is suggested. Electrical is funny but has to be exact.
When I had this problem I was overwhelmed as you are but I wanted it fixed & wanted to do it myself.
The only other choice you have is bring it to a shop.It does become frustrating.
Check to see what it cost for a trigger.
Do you have a way to pull flywheel?Steering wheel puller is what I used but don't hit the puller to make it pop off,that is a no no.I used a impact driver which made it easier to hold flywheel from spinning.
They appear to be about $50, I do have a gear puller, and an electric impact. I just hate to think if this isn't the problem, I have wasted time. I would really like to use it this weekend.