This site is supposed to be PG! Take it easy fellas!
I read a quote a while back that goes something like this,
Absence causes great love to grow stronger, and small love to diminish. It was really more pretty than that, but you get the idea. Its too hard to say without knowing specifics, but maybe its time for BOTH of you to figure out if you want this.
My relationship with my wife wasn't typical, we pretty well never fought, and it was always short if we ever did. We've been married 5 years, and its stayed that way. [-o< .
I know others who fought tooth and nail and have been married a few years just fine, so... pray about it!