Buster
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It's why I make the 6 hour round trip weekly, and in the summer to get him out on my brother's pontoon to drown minnows.Cherish your Dad because when he is gone like mine you'll miss him - alot!
It's why I make the 6 hour round trip weekly, and in the summer to get him out on my brother's pontoon to drown minnows.Cherish your Dad because when he is gone like mine you'll miss him - alot!
Signed up for Medicare in preparation for my retirement Jan 31 2025. It will be very different not having a job any more.
I have struggled a bit with retirement, Covid years, and loss of work friendships.Signed up for Medicare in preparation for my retirement Jan 31 2025. It will be very different not having a job any more.
My dad also always said that if he ever stopped he would just die. He always found something that needed doing.About three years after my dad retired he said to me "I always wondered when retired people said 'I'm busier now than I ever was when I was working.' But now I understand--you do everything at about half the pace."
I checked out of full time work at 52 and did some light consulting for a few years just to keep a foot in the door in case I wanted to get back into work. Now I'm fully retired while my wife finishes up her career. She's happy working, I never was. My personal take on being busier is that objectively I (and most others) aren't "busier" if that means doing productive things that have to get done. Instead, we have expectations of doing more and however we decide to fill our days we can't get to all the things we want to do, so it feels busy. I also think many people WANT to feel busy because they've spent 40 years or more being busy and that energizes them. So we structure our lives in ways that make us feel busy. Using my 92yo dad again as an example--he tells me he's busy. He has to sweep the floor and read the newspaper and magazines, and there's a football game on at 3 and then he has to help mom with dinner and there's a movie he really wants to watch at 7. I wouldn't call that busy because with the exception of a bit of housework and meal prep, there's nothing on that list that has to get done--it's 90% leisure from my point of view. But I think he needs to believe he's being busy and productive. And if that keeps him going for a few more years--good on him.
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year Too!My Dad said the same thing, he worked his garden (Summer and Fall) I did the tilling for him as the Sears 6 HP tiller would kill you if you didn't keep an eye on it, lol
We went fishing so he could bring home fresh fish for dinners, I took fresh venison and pork to him and mom from my hunting trips, he walked the dog 2 times a day for over a mile each time! He kept busy doing things for mom (she was an invalid)- cleaning the house, cooking food, grocery shopping - I told him he made a good wife, he laughed and said mom was his best friend, mother of his children, his honey pie! Made me feel warm inside when he said that, OH! they were married for 55 years when he died, tells you something about them!
Guess I learned something from mom and Dad - me and my better half will be doing out 35th in May of '25. She is also my best friend, mother of my 2 children, even though I am disabled I do the shopping and cooking when I can; finding a good woman is a blessing from God and to be loved, cherished and above all told how much they mean to us everyday! OFF MY SOAP BOX NOW - MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL MY FAMILY HERE ON "TINBOATS" - MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL THIS HOLIDAY SEASON!
Beautiful!!! Well, except for the last pic. lolIt was 34F here yesterday. So the dog and I went hunting... sort of. Hard to hunt rabbits when the snow is deep. The dog and I were happy to get out.View attachment 123862View attachment 123865View attachment 123864View attachment 123866
Notice how low the sun is on the horizon at 1 o'clock in the afternoon.
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It looks like I'm in winter wonder land, however there is a massive power generating plant just a few miles from here. Huge power lines behind me in the field. View attachment 123863
Yes, she is. I got her from the local Humane Society almost a year ago. I couldn't have got a better dog.Beautiful!!! Well, except for the last pic. lol
Your pooch a Malinois?
So cute! And she's probably quite the barrel of energy lolYes, she is. I got her from the local Humane Society almost a year ago. I couldn't have got a better dog.
I was a "city kid" (12k people in western MN--on the lake-filled edge of the Great Plains) but half my class and thus friends were from surrounding farms so there's some familiarity with all that. Stand Up, that last photo reminds me of jackrabbit hunting on friends' farms west of town.Got me to remember my life on my father's farm when I was growing up; when it snowed we usually got 15 to 20 inches and sometimes with ice to boot. Made for fun times in the fields and woods; I remember hearing the pines snapping off from the ice and knowing that come the morning I would be on the axe or chainsaw until Dad and I cleared them out. God that memory made we fill up with tears missing my Dad and those tuff times we shared together, Stand Up you are a lucky man, true it's cold but nothing can ever take away those memories, Bless you brother for sharing them with us!
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